This is an excellent analysis. I would add the following:
Tied in with the commentary about risk-taking, there has been a tremendous change in recent decades on promoting "safety" at all costs. It was not like this when I grew up. Sure, we should avoid reckless behavior, but this goes way beyond that. We're talking about calling the cops if kids go to the park on their own. And examples like this show that this indoctrination goes beyond propaganda, it recruits busybody neighbors to enforce their agenda. And this "safety" shows up in very malignant ways too, as we saw with Covid, especially for kids. That was the rationale for keeping kids at home, away from parks, and ultimately requiring the older ones to take a dangerous and ineffective vaccine.
Speaking of vaccines, the childhood jabs play a large role in weakening kids and undermining boys. ADHD is not just a made-up diagnosis. Vaccines cause major problems with self-regulation and one way this shows up is as ADHD, especially in boys. Yes, toxins in foods and drugs cause harm, but vaccine toxicity has a tremendous impact on many kids, including the ones diagnosed as autistic.
The family courts are among the many institutions that blatantly discriminate against men. A wife could have a bad hair day, call up a feminist lawyer that tells her, "put yourself in my hands, ad you will never have to work another day in your life", and begin the destruction of her husband. Any woman can play the feminist card, at any time.
The course of least resistance is for men to walk away from that entire scenario.
Splitting custody is the only fair thing for parents and kids alike. Children of single-mother households statistically have much poorer outcomes, with running away from home, abusing drugs, dropping out of school, suicide, etc. One fellow who was denied ANY custody of his children had to sit by helplessly when his son went wild without his father around. The boy ended up being shot and killed by the cops when caught trying to steal a car.
Thank you doc, this is quite a shocker, especially it coming from a clinical psychologist. You better watch your back, the feminists and the psych industry are not going to like this. Don't give up, we need this!
I heard that many years ago and it stuck with me, such a simple way to describe as you so well put it how society and women treat our mean. We need our men being men.
This is so true! The PsyOp is also imbedded in the mind control programming through symbols that lure masculinity into bureaucratized state tyranny structures such as the military and law enforcement. These structures romanticize the ideals of masculinity, while in reality, they serve the corporate beast war machine and capitalize on tribal instinct; weaponizing masculinity and feeding off of it.
In other words, this is about the disposability and expendability of men. Creating 10 offices for women's health, and ZERO offices for men's health, accomplishes the same goal.
Yes....it does indeed, although I would add that the entire foundation of what the mainstream calls "health" is 100% wrong, and everything that people have been brainwashed into thinking is normal is complete and total bullshite anyway. The entirety of allopathic medicine is anti-life. All their systems are mere talking points that cater to the need for attention and validation, further enabling the victimhood status that far too many people have embraced. From where I am sitting, even the word "patient" is a disempowering term that conveys dependence upon an authority outside of the self, which is abdication of personal responsibility and personal control over health. But that, my friend....is another topic entirely.
Thank you for writing this! It truly sounds like the plot from the villainous shadowy cabal of a fantasy novel — yet it's really happening, and we're allowing it. The veil is parting. Be the resistance!
I think the real issue here is dualistic thinking. You seem to think that either the man is “the boss” or he’s a wimp. It’s more nuanced. Consider it a continuum: at one end you have the depressed wuss you abhor, at the other you have a bully, which a lot of these men’s power types confuse with “real” men. You can be a good listener, you can acknowledge your feelings without either suppressing them behind a mask or lashing out. You don’t have to believe that the possession of a dick automatically makes you the smartest guy in the room. Also consider that a lot of people, not just men, are depressed because the climate is on a trajectory that will make human existence difficult, if not impossible, and the days of getting a job that supports a one-income family with a secure retirement are over, as more and more wealth accrues in fewer and fewer hands.
Have you noticed how often men punch each other, for insulting women, in old movies? Now, shoving someone can be assault. Even in Friday, a relatively recent flick, depicts a dad lecturing his kid on the cowardice of relying on guns, instead of fists, to handle neighborhood disputes. Is there a societal benefit to trading fist fights for all this gun violence? Fight Club, another great movie, was meant to teach us that neutering men has led to social malaise and weakness.
Doc, I want to show you the thing that scared the tyrannical government more than anything that happened in Australia during covid. It was when men, the ones who keep the lights of civilisation on, decided they would no longer be doing so: https://vicparkpetition.substack.com/p/hidden-protest-the-day-a-group-of
Wow why does it always have to be about left and right politics, this gets old and boring as the dirty old man’s’ wallet he has been farting on for years. Truly stinky!
The left has been terrible to men, but the right just offers male-centric rhetoric and a cartoon verision of masculinity without actually doing a damned thing to help men. Both sides have been garbage.
We know that the left talks about men like we are all degenerate assholes.
But has the right really made it easier for men to support and raise a family? To find purpose? To get fair treatment in family court? To build wealth? Have they sought to reform criminal justice, which disproportionally affects men? Have they made it easier for blue collar men to seek mental health care when blue collar jobs are difficult to leave during working hours?
No. They do nothing. In fact, they make the problems worse and cut taxes for the wealthy while talking about "traditional family values" and attacking women's rights. Unfortunately, some men fall for it, but then they find themselves trapped as wage slaves who can't get ahead and neither side cares.
The right *talks* about men better than the left, in their cartoony, Christofascist way, but they don't do anything. Any man looking to the left or right for actual respect or good policy is going to be disappointed.
The one thing that happened was Betsy DeVos, Trump's Education Secretary during his first term, reformed Title IX rules to give college men due process rights in Obama's campus feminist kangaroo courts. Sadly, nothing has happened since then.
Another excellent and necessary post. As a woman who grew up in the 1970s, I always had a wide variety of interests and passions, some of which were considered to be more male oriented. But that used to be called being a well rounded person. I'm also neurodivergent which helped shaped me into being a distinct individual and separated me from the crowd, though I was also dealing with abuse in my home. Having said that, I'm so incredibly grateful I grew up in an era pre drugging and full of psychobabble prior to all this nonsense judgement where the mental "health" industrial complex and mass technology with its fast paced, overstimulating everything on demand which has tragically become the modern era. It is based on turning men and women into shallow, mindless automotons who do nothing but mindlessly follow orders and algorithms, distractions and be constant consumers and no longer creators and the creative in control of our own destinies, shaping our own futures.
Assertiveness, individuality, strength, stoicism, self control and bravery are awesome qualities that I adore in men and ones that women would do well to develop for themselves too. I've always gotten along better with men than women for the most part, I guess mostly because of shared interests and passions and because I also adore men unafraid of being themselves. I'm super attracted to that male energy & I'm not at all ashamed or afraid of that. I have a very forthright and honest personality that some may find off-putting but others seem to appreciate. I don't think anyone, male or female, should be ashamed of being themselves as individuals, unless they are actively intentionally hurting others or behaving with ulterior motives. Other than that, God created us as unique individuals, male and female and we should celebrate and support those differences, help one another be our best and do our best.
Many thanks again for another insightful and important post, Dr. McFillin. You always have something of wisdom and value to say, it's a pleasure read and share.
"The porn industry deliberately targets these vulnerable young minds, rewiring their neural pathways while Hollywood, advertising, and social media continue the assault with hypersexualized imagery that treats women as decorative objects rather than full human beings"
As long as the culture is immersed in man-hating feminism, that treats men as less than human beings, there will be porn.
I would say the need for some blokes to assert dominance over others, possessiveness and misdirected aggression may be labelled toxic traits but women can show these traits too. I would take cooperation over competition any day of the week except in sports. Strange therapists would attack stoicism since CBT is derived from it, isn’t it?
This is an excellent analysis. I would add the following:
Tied in with the commentary about risk-taking, there has been a tremendous change in recent decades on promoting "safety" at all costs. It was not like this when I grew up. Sure, we should avoid reckless behavior, but this goes way beyond that. We're talking about calling the cops if kids go to the park on their own. And examples like this show that this indoctrination goes beyond propaganda, it recruits busybody neighbors to enforce their agenda. And this "safety" shows up in very malignant ways too, as we saw with Covid, especially for kids. That was the rationale for keeping kids at home, away from parks, and ultimately requiring the older ones to take a dangerous and ineffective vaccine.
Speaking of vaccines, the childhood jabs play a large role in weakening kids and undermining boys. ADHD is not just a made-up diagnosis. Vaccines cause major problems with self-regulation and one way this shows up is as ADHD, especially in boys. Yes, toxins in foods and drugs cause harm, but vaccine toxicity has a tremendous impact on many kids, including the ones diagnosed as autistic.
Wow this gal agrees.
I’ve watched for decades as women bought into the lie that being a man’s partner and mothering is somehow demeaning ..
Look at the generations Feminism has created -yah good job turning out weak , lost , depressed adults .
Wake up men !
Take back your positions as leaders in your families . Otherwise what true worth is your life?
The family courts are among the many institutions that blatantly discriminate against men. A wife could have a bad hair day, call up a feminist lawyer that tells her, "put yourself in my hands, ad you will never have to work another day in your life", and begin the destruction of her husband. Any woman can play the feminist card, at any time.
The course of least resistance is for men to walk away from that entire scenario.
Thanks for liking my post ..
As to the courts .. they are corrupt .
Judges are attorneys and contending parties are represented by attorneys..
NONE of them are concerned primarily with the CHILDREN (if any). It’s a club .
I hear what you’re saying tho’
Actually things may be turning around as “Father’s Rights” Is gaining steam .
Many courts split the custody evenly which really screws with the kids minds ..
Case in point , my daughter had to shuffle her kids to the abuser’s house because of a (60/40) split ..
All 3 kids eventually felt suicidal..
THEN the courts responded to their needs .
Splitting custody is the only fair thing for parents and kids alike. Children of single-mother households statistically have much poorer outcomes, with running away from home, abusing drugs, dropping out of school, suicide, etc. One fellow who was denied ANY custody of his children had to sit by helplessly when his son went wild without his father around. The boy ended up being shot and killed by the cops when caught trying to steal a car.
It’s all tragic!
All sides ..
Whoever is best for the kids , I say.
And I agree with you about no father in the household .
Exactly.
Thank you doc, this is quite a shocker, especially it coming from a clinical psychologist. You better watch your back, the feminists and the psych industry are not going to like this. Don't give up, we need this!
Alison Armstrong said - “Men are not hairy women”
I heard that many years ago and it stuck with me, such a simple way to describe as you so well put it how society and women treat our mean. We need our men being men.
This is so true! The PsyOp is also imbedded in the mind control programming through symbols that lure masculinity into bureaucratized state tyranny structures such as the military and law enforcement. These structures romanticize the ideals of masculinity, while in reality, they serve the corporate beast war machine and capitalize on tribal instinct; weaponizing masculinity and feeding off of it.
In other words, this is about the disposability and expendability of men. Creating 10 offices for women's health, and ZERO offices for men's health, accomplishes the same goal.
Yes....it does indeed, although I would add that the entire foundation of what the mainstream calls "health" is 100% wrong, and everything that people have been brainwashed into thinking is normal is complete and total bullshite anyway. The entirety of allopathic medicine is anti-life. All their systems are mere talking points that cater to the need for attention and validation, further enabling the victimhood status that far too many people have embraced. From where I am sitting, even the word "patient" is a disempowering term that conveys dependence upon an authority outside of the self, which is abdication of personal responsibility and personal control over health. But that, my friend....is another topic entirely.
Thank you for writing this! It truly sounds like the plot from the villainous shadowy cabal of a fantasy novel — yet it's really happening, and we're allowing it. The veil is parting. Be the resistance!
I think the real issue here is dualistic thinking. You seem to think that either the man is “the boss” or he’s a wimp. It’s more nuanced. Consider it a continuum: at one end you have the depressed wuss you abhor, at the other you have a bully, which a lot of these men’s power types confuse with “real” men. You can be a good listener, you can acknowledge your feelings without either suppressing them behind a mask or lashing out. You don’t have to believe that the possession of a dick automatically makes you the smartest guy in the room. Also consider that a lot of people, not just men, are depressed because the climate is on a trajectory that will make human existence difficult, if not impossible, and the days of getting a job that supports a one-income family with a secure retirement are over, as more and more wealth accrues in fewer and fewer hands.
Have you noticed how often men punch each other, for insulting women, in old movies? Now, shoving someone can be assault. Even in Friday, a relatively recent flick, depicts a dad lecturing his kid on the cowardice of relying on guns, instead of fists, to handle neighborhood disputes. Is there a societal benefit to trading fist fights for all this gun violence? Fight Club, another great movie, was meant to teach us that neutering men has led to social malaise and weakness.
The irony of the war on masculinity is that, based on mental health outcomes, women seem to be losing it. Sad!
Doc, I want to show you the thing that scared the tyrannical government more than anything that happened in Australia during covid. It was when men, the ones who keep the lights of civilisation on, decided they would no longer be doing so: https://vicparkpetition.substack.com/p/hidden-protest-the-day-a-group-of
The Romans did this 2,500 years ago and were much more sucessful than us because the populace was also Rome's standing army but that is where we got the idea: https://vicparkpetition.substack.com/p/secessio-plebis-on-the-third-anniversary
Trust me: they are really, really scared of this sort of masculine action.
Fluoro lay down sounds pretty feminine to me. I want heads on fucking pikes!
Absolutely first rate post, jam-packed with truth, bravo and brilliant!
Wow why does it always have to be about left and right politics, this gets old and boring as the dirty old man’s’ wallet he has been farting on for years. Truly stinky!
Because the Democrats are the party of dismissing men. Take a look at their website: they state that they serve women, but not men.
The left has been terrible to men, but the right just offers male-centric rhetoric and a cartoon verision of masculinity without actually doing a damned thing to help men. Both sides have been garbage.
We know that the left talks about men like we are all degenerate assholes.
But has the right really made it easier for men to support and raise a family? To find purpose? To get fair treatment in family court? To build wealth? Have they sought to reform criminal justice, which disproportionally affects men? Have they made it easier for blue collar men to seek mental health care when blue collar jobs are difficult to leave during working hours?
No. They do nothing. In fact, they make the problems worse and cut taxes for the wealthy while talking about "traditional family values" and attacking women's rights. Unfortunately, some men fall for it, but then they find themselves trapped as wage slaves who can't get ahead and neither side cares.
The right *talks* about men better than the left, in their cartoony, Christofascist way, but they don't do anything. Any man looking to the left or right for actual respect or good policy is going to be disappointed.
The one thing that happened was Betsy DeVos, Trump's Education Secretary during his first term, reformed Title IX rules to give college men due process rights in Obama's campus feminist kangaroo courts. Sadly, nothing has happened since then.
and yet they don’t know what a woman is and a man can be a woman… insanity.
Another excellent and necessary post. As a woman who grew up in the 1970s, I always had a wide variety of interests and passions, some of which were considered to be more male oriented. But that used to be called being a well rounded person. I'm also neurodivergent which helped shaped me into being a distinct individual and separated me from the crowd, though I was also dealing with abuse in my home. Having said that, I'm so incredibly grateful I grew up in an era pre drugging and full of psychobabble prior to all this nonsense judgement where the mental "health" industrial complex and mass technology with its fast paced, overstimulating everything on demand which has tragically become the modern era. It is based on turning men and women into shallow, mindless automotons who do nothing but mindlessly follow orders and algorithms, distractions and be constant consumers and no longer creators and the creative in control of our own destinies, shaping our own futures.
Assertiveness, individuality, strength, stoicism, self control and bravery are awesome qualities that I adore in men and ones that women would do well to develop for themselves too. I've always gotten along better with men than women for the most part, I guess mostly because of shared interests and passions and because I also adore men unafraid of being themselves. I'm super attracted to that male energy & I'm not at all ashamed or afraid of that. I have a very forthright and honest personality that some may find off-putting but others seem to appreciate. I don't think anyone, male or female, should be ashamed of being themselves as individuals, unless they are actively intentionally hurting others or behaving with ulterior motives. Other than that, God created us as unique individuals, male and female and we should celebrate and support those differences, help one another be our best and do our best.
Many thanks again for another insightful and important post, Dr. McFillin. You always have something of wisdom and value to say, it's a pleasure read and share.
God Bless you & everyone reading.
"The porn industry deliberately targets these vulnerable young minds, rewiring their neural pathways while Hollywood, advertising, and social media continue the assault with hypersexualized imagery that treats women as decorative objects rather than full human beings"
As long as the culture is immersed in man-hating feminism, that treats men as less than human beings, there will be porn.
What’s funny about this is that it makes me realise what a bloke I am, and that I am not and never have been ashamed to be so.
I would say the need for some blokes to assert dominance over others, possessiveness and misdirected aggression may be labelled toxic traits but women can show these traits too. I would take cooperation over competition any day of the week except in sports. Strange therapists would attack stoicism since CBT is derived from it, isn’t it?