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Valerie's avatar

I was very interested in the medical part of this essay because I’m a massage therapist in a chiropractic office. People will often come to me and tell me things like ‘I have a herniated disc’ or that some joint is bone on bone and they’ll have to have surgery, and it becomes almost their identity.

It breaks my heart when people feel like they have no agency to affect their body and their pain. If I know them fairly well, I might tell them that studies have been done comparing MRIs of people with significant back pain to people with none, and they’re the same, everyone has some arthritis in their spine, etc, but non-surgical interventions like PT, therapeutic massage, and chiropractic (decompression therapy can be amazingly helpful) can help manage their symptoms so they can stave off surgery for years sometimes, and sometimes they won’t end up needing surgery at all.

And the mental health piece is just terrible, especially on kids. What are we doing?

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I told our kiddo that they don't need to fill out the depression screening at the pediatrician, and my kiddo laughed and said the questions are not a big deal to them. Thankfully. 🙏

We already push back against the whacked pronoun language on the intake form (kid offered to identify as a green McSkittle). And we no longer vaccinate. I think our kid didn't want one more thing that we were pushing back against. 😂

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